An introspective look at not remembering names

Over at Becoming Minimalist, Joshua Becker聽offers some personal introspection on a paradigmatic case of forgetting a couple’s names. In part, Becker narrates,

I was sad that I wasn鈥檛 able to remember something as simple as the names of two people I very much enjoyed meeting.

And suddenly it struck me.

I entered the conversation鈥攁s I do so often鈥攚ith the desire to be known rather than to know. I was trying so hard to say something impressive or witty or intelligent that I entirely missed what they were saying on the other side of the conversation.

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March 6, 2017 路 2 min 路 J. David Stark